My Favorite Banker

Up until today, my favorite banker of all time was Milburn Drysdale. From 1962-1971, Milburn was the scrooge of the banking world at the Commerce Bank of Beverly Hills. Here's a classic exchange between Mr. Drysdale and his secretary (back in the day when there were stewardeses and secretaries):

[dictating a letter to Miss Jane] Milburn Drysdale: ... and furthermore, if you are late on your mortgage payment one more time you will be thrown out into the street...

Jane Hathaway: Chief, she's eighty-five years old and in a wheelchair!

Milburn Drysdale: Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't know... change that to read, you will be wheeled out into the street

Sorry Milbourn, you've been unseated. Today Patrick landed a job as a teller at Park Bank. Little PT is a banker. That does not surprise me because since first grade, Patrick handled the monetary transactions for Aaron and himself. Whether going to a movie, paying for delivered pizza, or turning in lunch money, Patrick was the man.

A week ago Patrick and I were discussing this upcoming second interview. I told PT that two years ago I suggested to Aaron that he include Park Bank on his job search. Aaron's response was a polite grin and "Thank, but I don't think so...". As Patrick said with a good chuckle, "Aaron wouldn't have a job where an ironed shirt is required. He would need something where you can get up, put on a t-shirt and go to work." That's accurate.

Patrick's journey without his brother is a challenge I don't relate to, as I've never lost a brother. Lots of people have played a part in helping Patrick. It has been said that for everyone, the length of our road varies, but we are all the same distance from the ditch. Losing anyone is not an excuse for compounding disaster but the statistics are what they are.

Like me, Patrick has had his days and we will have more of "those days". I'm grateful that PT's work on this road and his acceptance of compassion and mercy from others is an honest tribute to God's mercy.

Thank you to everyone who listened to him, put up with him, accepted him, or supported him in any way these past 22 months. You matter and you made a difference.

I know Patrick will share some of what he gained from you and share that compassion in his life. Should you need a check deposited, I know where you can find a good banker.

Tom